Marriage has gotten a bad reputation. At least it seems that way. Married people annoy me. Like a lot. (I am married….). Anywho, this is why. Whenever people my age get married (mid 20s) I feel like they try so so so hard to be grown-ups and to do what they think they’re supposed to do when they get married. Which is get super lame and annoying. Not true, kids. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you have to change a single thing about yourself. Except maybe stop whoring yourself around, if you’re into that. It’s sad to me to see so many people I knew from college get married and then just become different people. And guess what, females? You don’t have to become a stepford wife when you get married! Great news, right? Right, so stop doing it! If you’re a stay at home wife at the age of 24, I hate you and I’m judging you so hard. So hard. This is 2012. Be a strong woman. Go out and make a career for yourself. Pay your own bills. Save your own money for your own retirement. Don’t give up on your dreams just because you got married. Your husband is not your guardian. He’s your partner. I’m not against marriage whatsoever. I’m actually a huge believer in marriage. I love it. I love the concept of it and I think it’s amazing. It just creeps me out how some people react to it. And I’m not saying you don’t have to compromise anything for your marriage. Of course you do. It’s a huge part of the commitment. I’m just saying don’t lose who you are when you do get married.
I’m clearly a pro at marriage, with my whole 3 years of experience with it. Not really, I just have very strong beliefs and opinions about it.
Rant over.
Preach!
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